Unfortunately a few weeks ago my gaming friend “Scotty” died suddenly at the age of 52.
After 40+ years of friendship and lots of gaming in various forms over the decades it’s left a major hole in my life and is taking some time to start to come to terms with.
In addition I am also dealing with his wargames related estate for his wife Julie . . After 40 years of collecting stuff / hoarding it /never parting with any thing , there is a lot of stuff to attempt to realise the value of for Julie his widow. I have started with a local show bring and buy (which went very well) , the local club (thanks guys - you’ve been great) and now moved on to e bay .
I have some reflections so far, based on having to sort through mounds of stuff.
1) the simple option is for your family to hire a skip and bin the lot if they don’t know what it’s worth. Yes those few bits of plastic/lead can really be worth £25 /50/100/250/1000s etc and at volume this adds up .
2) Talk to someone about what you might want to do with stuff after your passing - even mention some in elements in a formal will.
3) Leave some guidance to help the person sorting stuff to identify what it is in the box or drawer . Or an opinion of expected value . Have a conversation in advance about someone dealing with your estate .
4) Books are a real problem on moving on . Value is pennies against pounds bought for unless it’s really unusual .
I feel a rationalisation of my own projects coming on next year .
I have been able to draw on a network of contacts which has helped to ID stuff and enable it to be sold locally or on e bay and it’s been a real help to me - thank you all .
I am out scattering Scotties ashes this weekend with his wife and family and will reflect on the many happy times we had over the gaming table ..
RIP Scotty
“Your dice rolled low one time too many my friend”